Fetishism and Freud
We are more or less familiar with the idea of “fetishes.” Sigmund Freud has a very curious explanation of fetishes. According to him, it all has to do with penises. A male child imagines that, like him, his mother also has a penis. When he realizes that she does not have a phallus, it causes him to fear losing his penis as well. That is, he fears being castrated. Idolizing his mother, he goes through two processes that work in parallel: on the one hand, he does not come to terms with the fact that his mother does not possess a penis. However, in order to deal with the fear that he too might lose his penis, he substitutes the idea of his mother’s penis with that of another organ (could be his nose or his foot, for example), deriving sexual pleasure from it. According to Freud, “[a fetish] remains a token of triumph over the threat of castration and a protection against it” (817).
If we are to follow Freud’s reasoning, it seems like that it is, at the end of the day, the penis that a man is sexually attracted to, not a person. By attributing his attraction to a penis to another organ of a woman, a man continues to feel attracted to a woman. Does that organ, then, become the repository of his mother’s non-existent penis?
Freud doesn’t end there. He has another point that I found quite curious: “It also saves the fetishist from becoming a homosexual, by endowing women with the characteristic which makes them tolerable as sexual objects” (817). He soon sums up the three options that a man has, by admitting that he does not know why some men become attracted to women by creating a fetish, while others just become gay and, once again, it also goes back to genitals: “Probably no male human being is spared the fight of castration at the sight of a female genital. Why some people become homosexual as a consequence of that impression, while others fend it off by creating a fetish, and the great majority surmount it, we are not frankly able to explain” (818).
There are, therefore, in Freud’s view, three directions that a man goes on: a straight man without a fetish, a straight man with a fetish, and a gay man. Those without a fetish are startled by the sight of a female genital and manage to overcome it. A straight man with a fetish substitutes his mother’s penis with a certain organ that makes women attractive to him because that organ then becomes the invisible penis, while a gay man, well, remains attracted to the penis.
As a gay man, I found this essay quite interesting, even though not entirely believable. Curious is the word. I guess we will never know for sure how exactly it all works.


